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The Worth of Souls: The Joy of Being an Includer

By Barbara Goode


Categories: Developmental Disabilities,Family

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I feel deeply about the principle of inclusion. For over eleven yrs now I’ve been a skills trainer for Developmentally Delayed adults in the greater Portland area. I now have a 7yr old autistic grandson who is sometimes brought to my home during the 2nd and third hrs of his ward meetings instead of going to his primary class because there are not enough teachers to afford him a one-on one assistant. While I love anytime I get to be with my beloved lil “Celestial Boy”, my heart aches because of his exclusion from  his Primary peers. There can be no “blame” cast to the Church, who will never “force” anyone to take on a volunteer calling. Neither do I “blame” those who refuse the opportunity to spend a few hrs with him each week.  I simply feel  a compulsion to educate and share some of my understanding and feelings….Isn’t that what “Blogs” are for???

As I teach each weekday at work ,  I Observe how the general public acts and reacts to coming in contact with anyone who is different: physically or cognitively.. I can tell from watching, how almost fearful, some children react to various appearances and behaviors that are foreign to them. What seems most tragic to me is that too often a matching look is mirrored on the face of their parents!   Even more tragic, I have seen similar  discomfort and avoidance towards the physically and mentally challenged sometimes even at Church by individuals who are loving people, but just don’t feel comfortable connecting with and drawing in those who are “different. “   I was searching  for,  and hoping to find something said that could help me find a way to teach primary children and their teachers ,of  the great blessing and great opportunity that can be theirs as they  discover the power and truth of what Our Savior said: “Perfect love casteth out fear”. Although none of us have that perfect love, our Savior, Jesus Christ  DOES … and He imparts to ,  and empowers with His love,  those who have the faith and desire to love, understand and include those who are “different”  and do so even at the self risk  of feeling awkward, at a loss for words, or even difficulty in basic communication with them .  (See lyrics from the Primary song “I’ll walk with you”. And consider the  song “God Bless the outcasts, the Children of God” From the Animated film The Hunchback of Notre Dame) …Two of my favorite songs!  The movie Gigot starring Jackie Gleason 1962,  seen as a child, inspired me to learn American Sign Language so I would never find myself at a loss to share with anyone that “asks me a reason for my hope” as Paul admonished.  But the the real foundation for my passion to include comes from my greatest  earthly Hero…..

When I was young, I remember looking at someone with Cerebral Palsy and asking my mother what happened to them. My Mom was not a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (I am  convert  from age 17) ,  but this wise and compassionate woman taught the Love of Christ by her fearlessness. Her ability to see past the “wrapping paper”!  Her  value  of the “eternal soul” of  an individual was one of the things that made her my hero.

 

 

 

To answer my query, she infused into my young heart the quoted phrase “…”There but for the Grace of God go you and I” She planted into my soul the desire to treat others as I would be treated if I were in their circumstances., because, in reality,  any one of us very well may have been born to  a much different life situation, or have life changed in an instant by a “Mac Truck gone amok! “

Mom took me to nursing homes and into neighbor’s homes where she provided respite for their elderly parents…. As a pre-teen, I remember it didn’t always smell too wonderful. They would shake, and make funny noises, but the life stories they could tell were better than a movie! The look on their faces when I brought them flowers or drawings warmed my heart and ignited in me a great love and respect  for them….and oddly enough, the smell, the shaking seemed to disappear from my mind as I looked into their eyes  and got a glimpse of “The worth of a souls” long before I had ever read the written phrase . I will be forever grateful to my fearless, including Mother, who not only gave her community a great service, but did a great service to me by exposing me to opportunities to look for the treasures beneath the surface of those who are “Different”.

 

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Say It Now

By Barbara Goode


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Hi everyone!  I rarely get a chance to  write much and have never “blogged” but here goes… What is happening in my life?  Mostly working and trying to keep the house in decent shape. What is “big” in my life right now?   My grandbabies! All 8 of them!  I Love every one of them whole bunches,  love to see them grow, and do new and amazing things daily!! I am so grateful for my kids sharing those things with us! (more…)

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WELCOME TO bgoode.com!

By Barbara Goode


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Hello, and welcome to bgoode.com! I am new at this and really don’t know how it works yet. This space will contain entries at a later date.

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